Would those challenges be there had I selected another occupation such as school teacher or veterinarian? The Numbers Game By the time a woman can become a police officer in the U.S.—considering the birth rates and immigration rates—there are slightly more men than woman in the population per age group.Why is it that what seems fairly black and white for us when we deal with other people's relationship issues on calls usually ends up being a giant mess for us as female police officers?I've asked myself, are there special challenges for me because I'm an officer?until you start shoving people around, tasing unarmed students for not leaving a library fast enough, shooting handcuffed kids in the back, arresting kids and lying on the police report, beating suspects and lying on the stand... That remark was enough that he broke off the relationship. And in most fields of employment, we don't get the discretion to commit homicide if we feel it's at all justified. I did meet one "female" cop whose adams apple was larger than mine and very likely had a set of testicles that would put mine to shame. I guess I should say that everyone has "a constitutional authority to take a life."Police departments give tests to screen out applicants for being too intelligent to make good cops (possible detectives), and anyone who would want that job obviously gets a big rush from power. Keep the conversation light, stick to general topics, and keep pouring the drinks.That is on top of the stresses and pressures of knowing that your partner is going to work every day with a gun on her belt.
So by the time a woman reaches her Forties, the pool of men for her to date is considerably smaller.
"There are many traits, both learned and natural, that make us good cops," Smith explains. The problem is when you go home you have problems in relationships."Yeah, thing is, the world isn't a violent place and the vast majority of people don't want to hurt you... I was unfortunate to witness an argument between a friend and his cop girlfriend. She told him if he talked like that again she would put him in handcuffs, and not in a good way.
We are taught from the very beginning that the world is a violent place and people want to hurt us. They are still chicks; same rules apply (they're all crazy, smile and nod etc..) A woman's job does not matter, the only thing that you need to know is this: "She's a chick- WATCH OUT"/I guess you might want to pretend that the "moves" they taught her in her weeks and weeks at police academy work and that she could restrain a grown man by force if needed.. Then, back at her place, tell her you need her help with something to make her feel in charge. Tell her she's hurting you a few times and cry out in pain a bit until she nuts a few times, then grab her cuffs, flip her over, and get your game on.
Also, traditionally it has been acceptable for younger women to date men who are considerably older; and by considerably I mean about 10 years older.
This means a woman in her Twenties has a wide selection of men to choose from for dating, but as she ages—regardless of her occupation—the pool of available men drops off sharply.
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