Basement (141) The Basement is reserved for our B & D members - you WANT to go to the basement, you MUST go to the basement, you WILL go to the basement...If you're looking for quick, kinky sex, please use another room!We’ve been together for more than a few months, but the distance between our beds and our bods means that we haven’t had quite that same experience.We’ve learned that while long-distance relationships are hard, having hundreds of miles between you and your partner can actually have a mind-blowing effect on your sex life.
Look for the iconic blue heart, indicating that your partner's vibrator is connected to your device.Here’s how we work through the sexual tension, frustration, and reunions: We talk about it. Because we spend a huge amount of time texting, emailing, and chatting on the phone, we’ve cover a lot of ground when it comes to sex — including our preferences and our plans for next time.It helps that I feel completely comfortable with him, but I think the opportunity to spell out what’s going to happen in our next sesh allows us to better use our imaginations and explore new territory in our own sexualities.For us, those are the parts of a relationship we crave — simple interactions that create normalcy. That means that when we’re together, putting sheets on the bed is an event. And we’ve found that sex works similarly in our relationship.After a few months in a typical relationship, seeing each other naked becomes commonplace, and the urgency to be intimate fades over time.It’s my first serious attempt at a long-distance relationship, and many aspects of it can be extraordinarily difficult.