In these times, persistence and having a good plan pays off big time. How do you know your ex is over you and it’s time to move on?How do you even know if your ex wants you back or not?Fight the anxiety by calling friends instead when the urge to speak to him strikes.It can be normal in the days immediately following a breakup to struggle with thinking about anything else.If you still love your ex and there is a possibility that you might get back together, my advice is to do everything within your power to get back your ex.
Don’t jump right back into your old ways This is someone you have been intimate with in the past, and it may be tempting to have your second date on the couch binge watching But it’s worth it to establish a new relationship pattern rather than rely on the intimacy you already have. Your new “old” relationship will only benefit from it.Like I said, years down the road perhaps you can consider it if you're still into it. Whatever the reason is, you have a moment of weakness and you hit up your ex. They ask about your dog and how your grandma Sue is doing, and for some reason you're aroused.And a month-long relationship may not even count as a real "ex", but going after the remains of a four year relationship puts you on the bottom of my list and I don't even know you. Boredom/horny Maybe you're in the middle of a dry spell. Your ex is familiar and it won't increase your number at all #recycle. Satisfaction You know you broke up for some reason, but the sex is still damn good.But hey, you wanted her boyfriend so maybe you'll want her name, too. The chances of successful group dates are highly unlikely and if you want to ever bring your bf to those concerts you always attend....well, think again.Basically, don't be the bitch who dates your best friend's ex. The things that used to annoy you kinda start turning you on.We would find ways to continue spending time with each other without delving into the potentially disastrous territory of admitting that maybe, just there were some residual romantic feelings worth exploring. There can be weird hang-ups about your past relationship, concerned friends who don’t approve, and a myriad of other things that can lead to a sad sizzle-out of a potentially fantastic rekindled relationship.