No matter what picture of an emotionally abusive person you have in your head, you are wrong because emotionally abusive men and women run the gamut and no group of people is immune.In fact, if a group of people were to sit in a room, drinking coffee, you would have no way of pointing out which were the emotionally abusive men and women.He needs to feel like he is “conquering,” like he is significant, like he is having an impact on the world, like his is pursuing his mission in life.Women are typically more driven by the desire to connect and build interpersonal relationships.Being cheated on is one of the most painful, shattering experiences, one that I wouldn’t wish upon anyone. You feel betrayed, your trust is destroyed, your self-esteem is ravaged, and you can’t stop questioning what you did wrong and what signs you must have missed.The one thing I wish I had realized a decade ago, when the guy I considered to be the love of my life cheated on me, is that it really had nothing to do with me, it was the result of his own internal issues. The reason I was so confused back then is I didn’t have an understanding of the male psyche, and I didn’t know the internal psychological factors that cause men to cheat.But whether it’s making hay in the rain or just wanting to know how to impress women, the biggest turn offs for women are all the same.Now, some women like big hands and some like small things.
He will love his freedom and like the fish his sign is named after, he could easily be a slippery person to be with.
So here is the Men don’t cheat because they’re scumbags or scoundrels.
It’s not because they can’t control themselves and oftentimes is not because they no longer desire you.
No matter who the emotionally abusive person is, they seek power and control over their victim.
Children are the most common victims of emotional abuse for just this reason – parents want to completely dominate and control their children into doing what is "right." Similarly, a husband or wife may abuse their spouse to control them into "behaving correctly," in the mind of the abuser.
If you’re not confident about yourself or are feeling nervous, trust me, it shows. If you aren’t happy being who you are, what are the odds that the girl you’re with would like your company?