Dating after death of partner

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If you find yourself needing to have lengthy conversations about your late spouse and your grief, invest in professional help rather than unloading an emotional burden on to your date.Dipping your toes into the virtual pool can be a terrifying prospect for many seasoned singles, let alone someone taking the first tentative steps towards new love in the wake of a partner's death.It can also bring out feelings of confusion and concern from friends, family, and those who were close to the deceased spouse.For those who have lost a spouse and are looking to date again, here are ten tips to help you successfully navigate the dating waters.

Abel Keogh, author of several books on dating after the death of a spouse, wrote in “Dating a Widower” that the right timeframe for one person might be several weeks, while for another it could be several months or years.

Make sure it's something you're really ready to try before taking that step. But five months was when I felt ready to at least test the dating waters.

After having been married, possibly for many years, and going through the trauma and grief that comes with the death of a spouse, widows and widowers may find dating daunting. There are many right answers to these questions, and it all comes down to what makes the widow or widower comfortable.

Some people take years, others weeks, and then there are those who choose never to date again.

Whatever you do, don't let others tell you you're moving too fast or waiting too long.

You can always dip your toe in the dating pool and take it out again if it doesn't feel right.

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