The majority immediately scramble to salvage their marriages, citing family or finances, prepared to agree to anything to keep their world in tact.Often this is in reaction to the shock, and not being prepared.After twenty years of marriage, Dinesh filed for divorce October 4 of this year.However, according to World Magazine, on September 28, the week before he filed, he traveled with Denise Joseph to an event where he introduced her to some people as his fiancée.As expected, women initiating divorce ultimately identify their spouse as the “true” initiator.The irony is that men, despite their own dissatisfaction are more likely to resist divorce.Others start dating right away, as a distraction or to combat feelings of loneliness.
Many of these losses though, are a result men’s typical, if not default, role within marriage of being the financial provider.
During the relationship he may run into old friends who ask about his divorce and his ex-wife, so mentally prepare yourself for that.
Don’t get insecure, angry, or sad every time you hear her name.
Just because a man is divorced doesn’t mean that you should rule him out completely. Dating a man who is going through a divorce or is newly divorced can be a tough challenge.
However, there are some things you’ll want to know before dating a divorced man to ensure this is a journey you want to go on. Before getting into a serious commitment with a divorced man, be sure you know where the divorce really stands. In most relationships when you break up with someone, you can easily move them out of your lives.
No matter how enlightened we are as a culture, it is still uncommon for men to be the primary caregivers, and women the financial provider.